
Sudden rage over a spilled glass of water? Feeling teary during a routine conversation? You aren't losing your mind, and you aren't a bad person. Estrogen fluctuations directly impact serotonin and dopamine pathways in the brain.
Understanding that these emotional waves are physiological rather than a personal failure shifts everything. Self-compassion is your most important tool during this transition.
When you feel anger or overwhelm rising, pause and name it: 'This is my nervous system and hormones reacting.' Taking the shame out of the emotion allows it to pass much faster.
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